Dating Tips

To prelude this blog, I am the owner of bookofmatches.com, a fun dating site for all. Because of my ability to see the behind the scenes statistics of online dating, I would like to share with you my thoughts on how you can benefit the most from online dating and then follow it up by member ideas and experiences. If you are a member of bookofmatches.com or another dating site and have had a positive experience, please share your success story to help others benefit.

Every dating site has its own method of hooking people up. Some sites offer extensive matching capabilities to match people based on personalities. These kinds of sites can truly be fun from the standpoint of seeing who the site hooks you up with. Because of the way they're designed, these sites can truly go through thousands of behind the scenes profiles to get you the best match. That being said, however, from a different perspective, these kinds of sites can be limiting or box you in as they are good at getting you to focus only on the matches that the site picks for you.

Because I am privileged to seeing the behind the scenes statistics, the best way for singles to be successful at finding compatibility is by simply playing the numbers game. In other words, you need to talk to as many people as you can on as many sites possible. The more you cast your line, the better your chances as the numbers will prove to be in your favor. If you spend all of your time talking to one or two people, you will never branch out and realize someone better is out there waiting for you that just might be a better match. Open the book, flip through as many pages and strike as many matches as possible! In any situation where you think you have found a match, meet them as soon as possible. It's important to make sure that who you are talking to online is the same person behind the scenes. If you meet someone you don't like, just make sure you get the fake ringer on your iPhone. That way you can make your phone ring and duck out of the date early.

Any experience or thoughts from members of boM or another site? What has been your experience and tell others your recommendations on how to be successful at meeting someone online....